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Cut, Stapled, and Mended

When One Woman Reclaimed Her Body and Gave Birth on Her Own Terms After Cesarean

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"At least you and the baby are healthy."
That's what they said when they handed him to me. And they were right. Why then, so long after my body has healed, do I still feel broken? A whisper inside of me insists: Birth is more than a means to a baby. There was something I was supposed to do, something I was to receive through giving birth.
Pregnant again, when the doctor tries to schedule another cesarean, I refuse. I will not submit to being tied down, cut open, and having my uterus extracted again without a fight.
That's why I ask a midwife to help me give birth. I tell her that I'm determined and strong. But she sees through my tough-guy armor. She smiles, saying, "Birth isn't a battle to win or lose. It's the result of delving into your vulnerability and finding your true feminine power."
In exquisite detail, Roanna holds nothing back in her powerful birth memoir, plunging the reader deep into the intimacy of this universal rite of passage. Part memoir, part manifesto, this is a must read for anyone who has given birth, will give birth, or who loves someone who will give birth.

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    • Library Journal

      Starred review from August 1, 2013

      Nearly one in three births in the United States are cesarean, which is major abdominal surgery and is associated with higher rates of surgical complications and maternal rehospitalization. Author Rosewood was not worried about that, however, before giving birth for the first time. She was unafraid, tough, and had every intention of rationalizing, troubleshooting, and verbalizing throughout. Days of labor and a C-section later, however, she writes, "I did not know that labor would be so big and intimate, that trust and comfort would be essential to progress." Haunted by being tied down, cut open, and suffering inexplicable, ongoing pain, she visited holistic practitioners, medical intuitives, acupuncturists, magnet therapists, and rapid-eye-movement therapists, to name a few, in a bizarre but compulsively readable effort to heal. Two years later, pregnant with her second child and opting to try for a natural birth against medical advice, Rosewood labored for so long that her uterus was damaged and she was forced to endure another surgery. Finally, at home with a midwife (and again against medical advice), she welcomed her third child. VERDICT Rosewood is a very interesting writer. While her ideas and anger sometimes seem kooky and naive, she is a strong, vocal advocate for empowering birthing women. Her sparse but rich writing is creative and poignant, and the book will be of interest to readers of titles such as Naomi Wolf's Misconceptions.

      Copyright 2013 Library Journal, LLC Used with permission.

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